Your Preparation · 02 of 08

How You Live

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Help us understand what everyday life really looks like for you — how you spend time together, when you need your own space, what works well now and what drives you mad.

Keep coming back to this one.

Over the next few days, notice the little things about your home and the way you live. Add them here whenever they occur to you.

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What do you notice?

Add the little things you notice about how you live. You don’t have to do them all at once — come back over the next few days as things occur to you.

Things that work really well

What do you love about your current home — or homes you’ve lived in before?

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Sarah

Everyone always gathers around our kitchen island. I love that.

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Mark

The north-facing light in the living room in the morning.

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Sarah

The flow from the kitchen straight out to the alfresco.

Things that frustrate you

What gets in the way, feels awkward or simply drives you mad?

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Mark

Having to walk through the laundry to get outside.

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Sarah

The pantry is tiny and things get lost at the back.

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Mark

The bedroom gets so hot in summer afternoons.

Things you’ve loved elsewhere

Something you’ve experienced in another home, a friend’s place, on holidays — anywhere.

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Sarah

We stayed somewhere with a window seat overlooking the garden and I loved sitting there in the morning.

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Mark

A mudroom at a friend’s place — shoes and bags just disappeared.

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Sarah

Big sliding door that opened the whole living room up.

Things you definitely don’t want again

Anything you’ve lived with before and would rather leave behind.

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Sarah

A formal lounge that nobody ever used.

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Mark

Carpet in the dining area — such a mistake.

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Sarah

A dark, closed-off kitchen with no connection to the rest of the house.

Don’t know what to add?

Pay attention to the little moments over the next few days. When something in your home makes life easier — or annoys you — add it here.

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Tell us a little more about everyday life

When you’re all at home, how do you tend to spend your time?

Anything you’d like to tell us about that?

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How do you like being together — and apart?

Some households love open spaces where everyone is together. Others need more separation, quiet spaces or somewhere to retreat. What tends to work best for you?

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Tell us about cooking and mealtimes.

Who cooks? Do people cook together? Are weeknight meals different from weekends? Where do you usually eat? What happens when family or friends come over?

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How do you entertain?

Is it usually a couple of friends, large family gatherings, children’s friends, outdoor entertaining — or is entertaining not particularly important to you?

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Work, study and hobbies

Does anyone regularly work, study or pursue hobbies from home? Tell us anything that might affect the spaces you need.

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Talk us through a typical day at home.

You don’t need to write an essay! Think about mornings, arriving home, meals, evenings, weekends — anything that helps us understand how your home fits around your life. (Completely optional.)

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Is there anything about how you’d like to live that’s different from how you live today?

Your new home isn’t only about accommodating life as it is today. Tell us about anything you’d like your home to make easier, better or simply more enjoyable.

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Anything else you’d like us to understand about how you live?

Add anything else that didn’t quite fit above — or simply something you’d like us to keep in mind.

Your Consultation

Wednesday 21 October
2:00 pm · In Person
Andrew Stickley
Your Advisor

Ideally have your Preparation ready by Sunday 18 October.

This gives Andrew time to review what you’ve shared and prepare properly for your Consultation.

Preparing together

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Sarah Brown (You)
Contributing
MB
Mark Brown
Invited

Keep adding as things occur to you.

You don’t need to complete everything in one sitting. Come back as thoughts occur to you — sometimes the most useful insights come from simply noticing what works, what doesn’t and what matters in everyday life.